Dear future wife, my name is John, and I want you to know that I will love and respect you for who you are. I want you to know that you are perfect and amazing in all the right ways, no matter how many flaws you may see in the mirror. When I see you, I see an angel who's built with beauty and purpose, a purpose to inspire others to never give up on their dreams and goals. No matter how big they may be! You are beautifully flawless in my eyes and will be from day one. I don't know much about you yet, but I'm excited to learn about you and your adventure with me. I just want your love, honesty, and commitment. I know our relationship may be difficult at times, and please don't be afraid to vent your hurt and pain to me.

Please know I have made mistakes and decisions that were inconsiderate of how they would impact not just me and my family, but most importantly, the people on the receiving end of my behavior. I hope you will look past my previous behaviors and understand that I am doing everything I can to make changes that will benefit not just me, but everyone in my life. I will be loyal and honest with you about whatever questions you may have about me. I will always support you no matter what you're going through. I take accountability and responsibility for any future arguments, fights, or disagreements we may have about life, but I want you to know I will never tell you I don't love you, and I will always keep you close to my heart.

I am a person of faith, specifically raised catholic; I am a family-first type of person. I love humor; I have a big personality; I am OCD about my appearance; I love shopping, working out, and sports like soccer, football, baseball, golf, and hockey. I love love! I'm a romantic. I love fishing, hunting, racing, fast cars, big trucks, and big hearts. Music is my main coping strategy, specifically country, hip hop, rap, pop, jazz, and rock; if the music makes me jiggle to the wiggle, then I like it. I'm fancy and classy; my love language is quality time.

I modeled for the Minneapolis modeling agency from 2010 to 2013. I served on the Chaska Fire Department from 2011 to 2015. From 2013 to 2016, I served in the United States military, specifically the Army, specializing in computer programming and communications. I served with the 2nd Infantry Division at Campy Stanely, South Korea. I was also stationed at Fort Jackson, South Carolina, and Fort Gordon, Georgia. I trained with a special operations unit tasked with performing counterintelligence duties with different agencies. In 2016, I received an honorable discharge for my service after sustaining traumatic frontal lobe damage to my brain.

I have two children, ages 8 and 6. I come from a big family that is very open, loving, supportive, and outgoing. Recently, I graduated from a four-year treatment program. It specialized in rehabilitating me and others who need cognitive restructuring revolving around their criminal and unhealthy lifestyle choices and beliefs pertaining to how humans interact with each other. I've had the opportunity to serve as a facilitator, teaching and helping men become successful while in prison and after they get out. I teach the following courses Monday-Friday: Domestic Violence Prevention Plan, Healthy Relationship Dynamics, Healthy Sexual Intercourse, Healthy Sexual Anatomy, Mental Health Prevention Courses, Healthy Family Dynamics, Healthy Communications, Conflict Resolution Courses, Cognitive Restructuring, Emotional Dysregulation Courses, Behavioral Therapy Lessons, and Parenting Courses.

I am looking for someone who is honest, open, outgoing, loving, passionate, humorous, patient, considerate, and family-oriented. I like Latinos, Brazilians, asian, athletic, not lazy, independent, hard-working, healthy lifestyle choices, fun personality, romantic, white, mixed, black. Finally, I want you to know I am not perfect, but I will work every day to be the best partner for you. Thank you for giving me a chance, Mrs. Klingelhutz.

Love, your husband,
John Klingelhutz

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